5 clear signs that you need to get off the hamster wheel
“If every day feels more like duty than life - then it's time to get off.”


1. You're constantly tired - and rest doesn't help you relax
If you wake up exhausted in the morning or can barely unwind during the day even though you're “just relaxing”, this is a strong warning sign.
👉 Why: Your body is in permanent stress mode. Sleep and free time hardly help - this is not a feeling of exhaustion, but burnout in the making.
What you can do:
- Check your priorities: What really makes sense?
- Consciously build moments of relaxation into your day (even if it's only 5 minutes)
- Think about whether you need to structurally - i.e. through change - get out
2. You're just functioning - your life feels externally controlled
Maybe you've already caught yourself saying “I can't do it anymore”.
You get up in the morning, think about your to-do list, your job, your appointments - but not about yourself.
👉 The most blatant sign: You live for others - and hardly notice what's really good for you.
What you can do:
- For 1 week, make a note of what you really had energy for
- Allow free time - and see what you use it for (communication vs. creativity)
- Realize: If your days are determined by others, real life is not possible
3. you feel emotionally empty - even close people hardly touch you
You notice it in your family and friends:
Feelings are extinguished. You hardly ever laugh, rarely cry, almost never feel happy.
👉 This isn't just tiredness - it's also emotional burnout.
What you can do:
- Consciously give yourself the gift of time with people or hobbies that used to be good for you
- Write about it: “I feel little” - as a test for clarity
- When an “inner wall” builds up - you can look and act
4. Physical symptoms - and no one asks how you are really feeling
Common signs:
- Headaches, back pain, palpitations
- Digestive problems, frequent infections
- Sleep disorders, emotional restlessness
👉 If you recognize any of these points - take it seriously!
Your body is reacting to a lack of balance in your life.
What you can do:
- Do something good for yourself regularly (e.g. meditation, breathing breaks, walks)
- Talk to your GP, health coaches or (online) therapists
- Don't wait - get started before you quit completely
5. Suddenly you're thinking about a new start - and you can hardly say it
Your mind wanders - more and more often.
- “If only I was my own boss...”
- “What if I only did what I enjoy?”
👉 This is the first glow that grows out of burnout.
What you can do:
- Gather ideas without pressure (“What could I want to do?”)
- Get guidance with a freebie or initial coaching
- Save small windows of time for your creativity - count 10 minutes every day
👉 Do you feel affected? Get my freebie now with your first tools & impulses for a carefree start to your new life.
How do I recognize burnout early on?
Look out for persistent exhaustion, reduced drive and physical symptoms. It is important to act early - instead of “enduring” the current situation.
Can I get out of the hamster wheel without changing jobs?
Yes. A hamster wheel can be changed both internally and externally (mindset, routine, automation, etc.). However, a complete restart is not mandatory.
📝 Conclusion - you're not alone
If you recognize yourself in these 5 signs, then you've already taken the most important step: you're starting to notice yourself again.
A new beginning doesn't get any easier the longer you wait - but it becomes possible as soon as you take the first step.
👉 Start now - with my freebie and the way out of the hamster wheel.


1. You're constantly tired - and rest doesn't help you relax
If you wake up exhausted in the morning or can barely unwind during the day even though you're “just relaxing”, this is a strong warning sign.
👉 Why: Your body is in permanent stress mode. Sleep and free time hardly help - this is not a feeling of exhaustion, but burnout in the making.
What you can do:
- Check your priorities: What really makes sense?
- Consciously build moments of relaxation into your day (even if it's only 5 minutes)
- Think about whether you need to structurally - i.e. through change - get out
2. You're just functioning - your life feels externally controlled
Maybe you've already caught yourself saying “I can't do it anymore”.
You get up in the morning, think about your to-do list, your job, your appointments - but not about yourself.
👉 The most blatant sign: You live for others - and hardly notice what's really good for you.
What you can do:
- For 1 week, make a note of what you really had energy for
- Allow free time - and see what you use it for (communication vs. creativity)
- Realize: If your days are determined by others, real life is not possible
3. you feel emotionally empty - even close people hardly touch you
You notice it in your family and friends:
Feelings are extinguished. You hardly ever laugh, rarely cry, almost never feel happy.
👉 This isn't just tiredness - it's also emotional burnout.
What you can do:
- Consciously give yourself the gift of time with people or hobbies that used to be good for you
- Write about it: “I feel little” - as a test for clarity
- When an “inner wall” builds up - you can look and act
4. Physical symptoms - and no one asks how you are really feeling
Common signs:
- Headaches, back pain, palpitations
- Digestive problems, frequent infections
- Sleep disorders, emotional restlessness
👉 If you recognize any of these points - take it seriously!
Your body is reacting to a lack of balance in your life.
What you can do:
- Do something good for yourself regularly (e.g. meditation, breathing breaks, walks)
- Talk to your GP, health coaches or (online) therapists
- Don't wait - get started before you quit completely
5. Suddenly you're thinking about a new start - and you can hardly say it
Your mind wanders - more and more often.
- “If only I was my own boss...”
- “What if I only did what I enjoy?”
👉 This is the first glow that grows out of burnout.
What you can do:
- Gather ideas without pressure (“What could I want to do?”)
- Get guidance with a freebie or initial coaching
- Save small windows of time for your creativity - count 10 minutes every day
👉 Do you feel affected? Get my freebie now with your first tools & impulses for a carefree start to your new life.
How do I recognize burnout early on?
Look out for persistent exhaustion, reduced drive and physical symptoms. It is important to act early - instead of “enduring” the current situation.
Can I get out of the hamster wheel without changing jobs?
Yes. A hamster wheel can be changed both internally and externally (mindset, routine, automation, etc.). However, a complete restart is not mandatory.
📝 Conclusion: you're not alone
If you recognize yourself in these 5 signs, then you've already taken the most important step: you're starting to notice yourself again.
A new beginning doesn't get any easier the longer you wait - but it becomes possible as soon as you take the first step.
👉 Start now - with my freebie and the way out of the hamster wheel.
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